Kink / BDSM role

The role you most identify with in consensual kink or BDSM dynamics.

A common self-identification within consensual adult kink. Adults-only, opt-in, shared only if you choose. Described neutrally, as part of comprehensive sex education — no judgment. (BDSM / kink community terms)

Groups

• Dominant — You tend to take the leading, in-control role.
• Submissive — You tend to take the yielding, following role.
• Switch — You move between dominant and submissive roles.
• Vanilla — Kink isn't part of how you relate — and that's perfectly fine.
• Curious / exploring — You're open to it and still figuring out what fits.

Related topics

• Relationship structure
• Favourite positions
• Intimacy role
• Libido (sex drive)
• Sociosexual orientation (SOI-R)

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